2026 comparison

The best way to run a Minecraft server with friends

Every option for sharing a Minecraft Java world with friends has a catch — a monthly bill, a player cap, no plugins, queues, or one person stuck keeping their PC on. Here's an honest look at Realms, Aternos, Hypixel SMP, paid hosting, and Relay, side by side.

Last updated: June 2026

The options at a glance

Scroll the table sideways on mobile. Prices and limits are what each provider advertises as of 2026.

Relay Minecraft Realms Hypixel SMP Aternos (free) Paid hosting One friend's PC
Price Free
(Plus $3/mo)
$7.99/mo $15 one-time Free ~$15/mo Free
Plugins & mods Yes
Paper plugins
No No
vanilla only
Yes Yes Yes
Player limit No hard cap 10 20 Varies By RAM By PC
Servers per plan 1 free / 5 on Plus 1 active 1 1 1 per bill 1
Online when A member is hosting 24/7 24/7 Only while active 24/7 That friend is on
Port forwarding None None None None Usually none Usually required
Ads None None None Yes None None
Who hosts it Whoever's online Mojang Hypixel Aternos The host company One friend

No single option wins every row — it depends what your group needs. Here's the short version.

Which should you pick?

Honestly:

Minecraft Realms

$7.99/month · up to 10 players
Best for

The simplest, most official "it just works" option for a small vanilla group.

The catch

$8 every month, hard 10-player cap, and no plugins or mods at all.

Hypixel SMP

$15 one-time (VIP+ rank) · up to 20 players
Best for

The cheapest way to get a 24/7 vanilla survival world for a bigger friend group.

The catch

Vanilla only — no plugins or mods — and it lives on Hypixel's network, not really yours.

Aternos & free hosts

Free
Best for

Trying something out for $0, with plugin/mod support.

The catch

Queues to start, shutdowns after a few idle minutes, ads, and shared-box performance.

Paid hosting (Shockbyte, Apex…)

~$15/month for a usable 4 GB server
Best for

A powerful, always-on, fully-controllable dedicated server.

The catch

You pay every month even when it's empty, and a second world means a second bill.

Where Relay fits

Relay runs the server on whichever member is online and syncs the world to the cloud, so hosting passes between friends. It's built for the gap the others leave:

  • Free — no monthly bill (Plus is $3/mo for 5 servers + 20 GB)
  • Paper plugins — unlike Realms and Hypixel SMP
  • No port forwarding — friends just paste an address
  • No one stuck hosting — anyone online can run it
  • Run multiple servers — 5 on Plus, vs one anywhere else
  • The world is yours — synced in the cloud, not locked to a network or one PC

The honest trade-off: Relay isn't a 24/7 box — your server is online when a group member is hosting. For a friend group that plays together, that's usually exactly when you'd want it on, and nobody pays for idle uptime. If you need a public server running around the clock, a paid host or Realms is the better fit.

Questions

What's the cheapest way to play Minecraft with friends?

Free hosts like Aternos cost nothing but add queues, idle shutdowns, and ads. Hypixel SMP is a one-time $15 for a 24/7 vanilla server. Relay is free and runs on a member's own PC — no monthly bill, no ads — with plugin support on top.

What's the best alternative to Minecraft Realms?

Realms is $7.99/month, capped at 10 players, with no plugins. If you want plugins, more players, multiple servers, or a lower price, look at Relay (free, plugins, runs on your PC), Aternos (free but queues/ads), or paid hosts like Shockbyte/Apex (~$15/month).

Can you play Minecraft with friends without port forwarding?

Yes. Realms, Hypixel SMP, Aternos, and Relay all skip port forwarding — friends just paste an address. Only old-school self-hosting on a home PC usually needs it.

Is Hypixel SMP good for a private server with friends?

It's a solid, cheap pick for vanilla survival: a one-time $15 VIP+ rank lets you make a private server for up to 20 friends, always online, no port forwarding. The catch is it's vanilla-only and lives on Hypixel's network.

What is Relay?

Relay is a desktop app that runs a shared Minecraft Java server on whichever group member is online. The world syncs to the cloud so hosting passes between members — no monthly hosting bill, no port forwarding, and full Paper plugin support.

Relay launches Summer 2026

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